Taken from 'SUICIDE Vol.2 - A collection of poetry, short prose, interviews and personal stories from around the world on the themes of suicide and self-harm.' CLICK HERE for further details and to order a copy.
BACK TO DUST
By Mia Amore Del Bando
My family sits in the corner
Wondering why would I ever want to visit God
With a gently tied rope
Or a misfire of a gun
God’s been missing my prayers
And dodging the voicemails
Miscommunication that no church can conveniently tie
As if He was on speed dial, a starred favorite
I wanted to ask
If there was a plan
And if we were a mistake
That simply got of hand
I sit under fat clouds
Wipe the tears
Pour myself a drink
And breed a new hope for tomorrow
From to dust
Back to dust
My family sits in a corner
Wondering why I left
Devastated I can never visit again
ABOUT THE POEM: “This poem reflects on the cruel thought process of self-harm and suicide. I wrote these to resist any temptation. At times, I feel small, and writing helps me create a better relationship with myself, and a higher power in able to pull myself out of negative thinking. Negative and suicidal thoughts are addictive, and you have to develop the self-awareness to spot it early. Writing is my outlet, and my savior.”
A BLACK SHADOW
By Hanyong Jeong
As the darkness creeps in, it engulfs my mind, and a black shadow is cast from my past. I feel lost and unsure of my footing, as the footprints that once guided me are now obscured. Regret and longing weigh heavily on my shoulders, manifesting as a constant sigh. The sounds of children's laughter and birds chirping echo in my mind, creating a symphony of words.
Despite my efforts to erase myself and fade away, the uncertainty lingers, refusing to dissipate. "Thought makes existence," they say, but all I see is the glimmering light slipping away, leaving behind a black shadow. Like a hardened fossil, time seems to flow too slowly, everything that fades becomes either a light or a debt. While I know that I too will eventually fade, it is not yet time.
As a bird chirps from the branches above, it asks me about the distance I have travelled. I reply that the end is in sight, but the future appears empty, and my journey feels like a constant fight. I am trapped in a cycle of never-ending endings and beginnings, a plight that feels inescapable. Will I ever break free from this shadow's grasp, or will I be forever trapped, my story untold?
ABOUT THE PIECE: "This poem deals with the suicide of an individual. Suicide is an act of the person's choice, but it is also, perhaps, a 'social murder.' Often, the cause of the death cannot be said to be the individual's decision. It is from this perspective that I hope this piece will allow us to look more deeply into grief.”
SPRIT SON
By Steve Ferrett
Close my eyes, I feel you so close, tenderly caressing my bereaved soul
Open my all to you and you heal my pain
Pain that once cut like a dagger, eases, questions that remain unanswered, degrade,
My mortal aura entwined with your ethereal spirit
You have taught me that not all that falls is lost, but will rise again, new incarnations
Your energy by my side, we stand tall .
Born blood, lived blood and died blood, now celestial ichor flows between you and I.
Enlightenment is my journey and you are my guide - Spirit Son
SMY STORY
By Kathy Sherban
Early childhood
Confusion reigns
Family breakdown
Immense pain
Tween time enters
trauma and fear
Calamity hits
Nothing is clear
Teenage angst
Predators appear
Who to trust
No one’s sincere
Arrival of Adulthood
Violators prevail
Power & money
Tip the scale
Maturity surfaces
Emotion’s plot
Memories rage
Ready or not
Mid-life emerges
Crisis arrived
Mental collapse
Barely survived
Twilight years
Lay ahead
Silent ghosts
Will be put to bed
EXCERPT FROM KATHY'S STORY:
".. My inner circle were blind sided by my attempted suicide, although they really shouldn’t have been. I had been on a downward spiral for five years prior to my attempt, cocooned in my bedroom for days, weeks, months on end, avoiding texts and calls from friends, alienating family, living a lone existence ..."
NO ANSWERS
By Katherine Brownlie
A croaked voice and watery
cracked red eyes announced she
was fed up with life
through the half open door
it was five in the morning again
enough said
she was confined
for good
I have no answers for the
pertinent questions of life
although I am specialist
for I too am human
I have certified knowledge
pertaining to planning demographics
risk factors
predicting completion
of suicide
I am experienced in detecting
mental illness
can apply psychological rating scales
treat with cognitive therapy
the panacea of emotional
troubles
but I have left all this behind
those social constructs
of people management
giving structure but
coldnesses
I prefer now to peer
Into the soul
But I confess I feel helpless
In the face of desperation
with life
I am specialist
but I feel I have no answers
my father once said to me
I hope you kill yourself
when he was unhappy
with what I had done
such sinister mouthings
can push thoughts into action
often its others who cannot cope
with the us of us
non specialists offering
an end to their own suffering
I think I live to spite such a person
but could a machine
wish our self destruction
keeping us infantile and
unquestioning in the
pursuit of endless
infernal happiness
persuading us over time
of our worthlessness
dripping with misery
we suffer in ways
the machine can only mimic
it knows the solution to
every question
but cannot know the courage it takes to
change
to be
to understand ourselves
our suffering is part of
our human richness
and we must always cherish it
for it cannot be controlled
much like love
but to find
a lovers noose
is a deep sadness
the lure of a looped knot
spurned for now
how is hope indeed found
in a disappointing meaningless world
it can only be salvaged
from the smallest of things
I am specialist
but feel I have no answers
I can only be with
someone
in the quietness
to suffer out the new
perspective from the fretful
dark kiss of agony
to feel human connectivity and
compassion is
enough to go on
breathing
I am specialist
but feel I have no answers
but rational decisions
over our own
corporeality
are apparently socially
allowed
I have my own plan
should I need it
it makes me feel I have
the option to live
to be in momentary
happiness and resolve
to be human with
unreliable feelings
of sufferance and sorrows
deep
I am specialist
but feel I have no answers
ABOUT THE POEM: "My poem is written from the aspect of being in a helping or significant other situation. It expresses feelings of inner helplessness, compassion and concerns I have of the effects of the machine and the algorithm has on our lives. It acknowledges that we are all human and perhaps should cherish this very aspect of ourselves, no matter who we are. Our suffering is our wealth, but can only be felt as such in meaningful human connectivity."
THE FORBIDDEN RITUAL
By Mark Andrew Heathcote
A widowed woman is committed to death.
Ritual says she must climb her husband's funeral pyre
find her beloved in the blue smoking, burning ghee
her husband's head rests on her lap, ah this is suttee;
this a ritual suicide by fire on a log & straw pyre
opium-induced, honouring flames lick beneath.
They're all-consuming to her life, her mixed grief.
Is this all meant to make her otherworldly,
in this undertowed vision of heaven, sparks fly,
cries howl, soon to drown, they'll crackle, die.
Ah, this is suttee; and is a ritual otherworldly,
she glows now a goddess, ah radiant in disbelief.
Her body is like clarified butter, burning ghee.
Ah, this is suttee; this is a ritual, otherworldly
her soul is like clarified butter, burning-ghee
now she too is otherworldly, ah, this is suttee;
ah, this is suttee; a forbidden ritual, otherworldly,
sorry, I-just-doesn't think so, at least not to me.
PRETEND
By Rebecca Topham
Pretend that you didn’t have a twin sister
Who lived in a little flat
Pretend there weren’t bright flowerpots outside
Where in summertime, she sat
Pretend that she didn’t have two tiny dogs
Who accompanied her everywhere
Pretend that she didn’t bask in the sun
Atop that beautiful field over there
Pretend that there wasn’t a little shop
Where she liked to buy sweet candles
Pretend she didn’t suffer from an illness
That -even you- could not handle
Pretend that you didn’t lose her forever
And that in the woods you walk
Pretend that you sit on your bench together
Laugh gregariously and talk
Pretend that you could have saved her
That you had visited her that day
Pretend that you had helped her
And that she would still be here today
ABOUT THE POEM:
“This poem is about my identical twin sister's suicide. She was my life. I hope my poem illustrates her beautiful, quiet personality. She suffered from depression, and I have bipolar disorder too, so we were able to give strength to each other. I really want people to see the person behind suicide. The act of suicide - I have found - seems to obscure the person. And so I write often in Debs' memory.”
NOT A MOMENT BEFORE
By Linda M. Crate
sometimes anxiety whispers:
"what if they hate me?" while my
depression laughs and says,
"no one cares enough about you
to hate you."
there are some days where i can
feel the warmth of the sun,
and other days it just feels like a lie;
there are some days i need a little help
simply to get by—
just being heard, having someone
to sit with me in the dark
makes a world of difference to me;
the days where no one has time for me and
i feel like i am drowning are the hardest—
people always say if they see the signs
of depression that they would be there for
their friends,
but people don't notice anything;
they'd only know if i were gone not a moment before.
ABOUT THE POEM: “This poem is from my own personal life with depression, and how it has impacted the lives of me, and those in my family.”
POSSIBILITY’S COINCIDENCE
By Dustin Pickering
Star —
the cylinder birth of cavernous Earth
disappointed
Fantasmal origin, god of cyclical
brooding, recompense.
I hear the music through the wall.
Judgment of the past, forms present
part of the future
Helen deep in love with the fruits of
discord.
Panthers slowly trickle from the future
to the realm of boredom, present.
Sets fire to adulterated fun, lack
of enthusiasm for.
The present is popcorn —
always lifting its boredom on high,
exalting.
The past is always popping corn.
Hearting the string.
The floods of tempestuous flame acknowledge
no saviour.
We are secretly burning the forbidden
letters of yesterday.
Tomorrow’s leeches are shallow tide prophets
whistling on the wind.
As the present sits in the middle, weighing
possibility.
MEMORIES
By Anthony Ward
All out at sea,
Away from shore,
I searched for you.
Falling overboard into the depths,
You caught me,
Saved me from drowning
As I sank deeper into myself.
Bringing me back to the surface
Where I could hear the waves swash
Back and forth in reminiscence.
MANIC WIZARD
By John F. Zurn
Today the wizard actor plays,
a role he has created.
He energizes every cell
and wanders streets elated.
Above his head he calls the clouds
with mantras filled with rain.
Thunder and his waving arms
keep time within his brain.
This wizard knows the secret signs
in every spruce and willow.
He counts the numbers 6 and 9
and dances but none follow.
Back at home the TV screen
gives messages of grace.
Music from the phonograph
affirms the wizard’s faith.
But mortals clad in black and blue
begin to close the noose.
They come and talk of things to do
beyond the wizard’s room.
Finally, the wizard rides
into an institution.
Believing wizards ought to hide
they make his reservation.
HOW WE GET THROUGH IT
(After a Son’s Suicide)
by Laurinda Lind
The vast body is grounded at its pulse
and in the sap of its words.
A memory threads the blood.
Out in the world, its masks and bowls,
filters and pumps, wheels and wells
everywhere turn around the silence at its hub:
whether in fields, in yards, in abbeys, in minds.
This electricity below bedrock is a river
whose news washes all.
A body thrives on plants made of soil
and stone and stars and death, and where
we are the most ruined, there
we may make ourselves right.
ABOUT THE POEM:
"'How We Get Through It' is an attempt to find a way to stay grounded despite the suicide death of my 17 year-old son."
AT 7.37
By Ian Douglas Robertson
At 7.37 on a February morn
a shot rings out,
Splitting the breaking dawn.
No one hears, no one cares.
A shotgun taken to a rabbit or a rat.
To scare the pigeons off the cabbage patch.
The day halts its relentless march
For a second, a resounding split second,
To register the blast
but nothing more.
The birds fall silent for a second longer,
Suspend their rustle in the trees
but that is all.
The world keeps turning on its axis,
Indifferent to the cannon roar that
Seems to soar above the misty valley
at 7.37.
No one knows the exact hour.
They are not there.
Nor do they care
to record the time and moment.
The moment when time stops,
When a dream comes to a close.
The moment that is never shared,
That cannot be shared.
The moment when a man puts an end to his life.
ABOUT THE POEM:
"My father shot himself in the early hours of the 15th February 1992 with a shotgun to his head. He had just spent three weeks with us in Greece after my mother’s death. He was clearly not himself but showed no signs of deep depression. He had expressed a wish to go back and dig his vegetable garden in time for spring. On the 14th he returned to Moorfields, where he had lived with my mother. It seems clear now that he had made up his mind even before he flew back to Ireland that he would put an end to his life. It took me twenty-five years to write this poem. This distance enabled me to see his death in general terms, as representing so many other sad and tragic deaths. In fact, possibly all deaths are sad and tragic, the only difference being that his was premature. I never blamed him for what he did. In fact, I admired him for his courage. I have always believed that we should have the right to end our life when we choose. The circumstances of his suicide, however, brought home to me how alone we are in life and particularly in death. Death is not a moment that can be shared, especially when it is self-inflicted. This poem has echoes of Garcia Lorca, a poet who, after so many years, still echoes in my head."
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